We all have the proverbial 'button' that once pushed causes us to be and act in ways that we typically don't. No one should have access to that button but you. No one has the power to carte blanche MAKE you act unseemingly unless you give it to them. If someone other than you has access to that button, they have too much power over you. Take back that authority and restrict access to your 'go off button' TODAY!
2 Timothy 1:7 - For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.